Back to School
Even now, as the parent of two elementary school students, the arrival of the “Back to School” flier makes me feel weak in the knees. While I welcome the return to routine and the excitement of new lunchboxes, friends and extra-curricular activities - fear, anxiety and dread set in and return me to that lanky school girl, clutching my trusty Trapper Keeper for dear life.
But today my fears and anxiety are for my kids’ academic success. It is probably safe to say I would have had these fears even if my kids had been born full-term. But given their early births, medical issues and challenges we knew they might need extra help. Eventually we got diagnoses of sensory integration, ADHD, and auditory and visual processing delays - making the anxiety associated with a new school year inevitable.
My husband and I agreed early on that we would invest as much of our time, energy and bank account into therapy for our children as we possibly could in order to ensure they had every opportunity to meet their full potential. My Rolodex of doctors, therapists, tutors and specialists runneth over as does our folder for medical receipts. But, the impact of early intervention cannot be denied.
For parents of children with special healthcare needs, social and emotional challenges, and learning and developmental delays, the return to school is often unavoidably anxiety-inducing. We want our children to be accepted, to have high self-esteem, to perform on par with their peers. And we know we cannot (and should not) be there to protect them and advocate for them during the school day. Instead we rely on teachers, counselors and administrators who “get” our kids and will work with them -and with us - to ensure a successful school year.
So we pack the lunch boxes, strap on the new backpacks and send our “babies” off with a kiss, hug and loving words of encouragement. The new school year is here! And despite my fears, I fully expect this to be another amazing year!
Kelli Kelley, Founder and Executive Director, Hand to Hold
Meet the Provider: What Does a Speech Language Pathologist Do?
by Erica Goyer, Hand to Hold Family Support Navigator
Raising a child with special health and developmental needs can
seem daunting! Often, we come home from the NICU with a list of
follow-up appointments to make, screenings to do and specialists to see.
Each month Hand to Hold will talk to a different therapist, specialist
or provider to learn more about them and what they do. This month we
talked with Anne Boon M.S. CCC-SLP
A family will seek the services of a Speech Therapist if they have any concerns for their child’s development in any of the following areas:
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Relationship between Prematurity and ADHD
by Dr. Dina O'Brien
Dr. O’Brien is a licensed psychologist specializing in treating children and adolescents who are experiencing a wide variety of concerns, including Anxiety, ADHD, Autism Spectrum Disorders and Developmental Delays, Pain Management, Adjustment to Medical Problems/Disability, and Grief/Loss. Dr. O’Brien’s fourth child was born preterm. She serves on the Hand to Hold Advisory Council. For more information about her practice, visit www.drdinaobrien.com.
Is there a Relationship Between Prematurity and ADHD?
About 8-10% of children are born prematurely in the United States each year and of those pre-term deliveries, 1.5% (60,000) are Very Low Birth Weight babies, weighing less that 1500g (3lbs, 5oz). We know that preemies and/or low birth weight children face higher rates of health problems and now researchers are finding that they are also more susceptible to developing ADHD. Severe prematurity-being born between 23 and 28 weeks-was found to put an infant at the greatest risk for later developing ADHD. But even mild prematurity- being born in weeks 37 or 38-was found to result in an elevated risk. At 34 weeks gestation, the overall weight of the brain is only 65% of what it weighs at 40 weeks gestation. Therefore, many researchers speculate that premature birth results in disruption to the maturational processes of the brain. Since the risk of ADHD increases the more premature the baby is, and decreases gradually in closer-to-term babies, it seems to point to the role of brain development in explaining the link between preterm birth and ADHD. However, some also suggest that the effects of stress that preemies experience, such as neonatal pain, maternal separation during intensive care, increased auditory and visual stimulation, and sleep deprivation, may also play a role as these are developmentally unexpected events. Studies with animals have shown that these stressors lead to changes in arousal and attention. In humans, such changes are associated with learning disabilities and cognitive difficulties which may manifest as ADHD.
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What To Do if You Suspect Your Child Has a Learning Disability
by Erika Goyer, Family Support Navigator
Every child has unique strengths and weaknesses and every child deserves an education that addresses their instructional needs. If you suspect your child has a learning disability, don’t hesitate to seek help. Your family is not alone. The National Institutes of Health estimates that one in seven Americans has a learning disability and more than 2.7 million students in our public schools receive special help and instruction in school because of their learning disabilities. Feel assured knowing that there are resources available for students and their families, including experienced, caring professionals, who can guide you through the screening and evaluation process as you find the tools to help you address your child’s unique educational needs.
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Preemie Family: Sonja and Rob Snow and Daughter Scarlett
Six years ago, we were expecting our first child. I was healthy and
certainly no stranger to exercise as a professional dancer and dance
instructor. I attended all of the recommended prenatal appointments and
by all indications our little girl was right on track.
At 26 weeks, I started noticing that my ankles were swelling really
badly. I didn’t think much of it since I was pregnant and on my feet a
lot. But on Easter Sunday, I woke up with a swollen face and fingers. I
immediately knew something was wrong. I checked my trusty “What to
Expect When You’re Expecting” book and it said if your face and hands are swollen then call the doctor. I didn’t want
to bother him on Easter, so I turned to the Internet. All signs pointed
to preeclampsia, which I knew was serious because I watched “Baby
Special Delivery” all the time. I read, “if your BP is at 140/90 you
should call the doctor.” My husband Rob, a former athletic trainer, had
the training and equipment to take my BP. He took it, thought his cuff
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Book Review: Overcoming Dyslexia
by Kasie Thibodaux
As an educator, I look on with a cautious eye as my students
mix up their bs and ds and write numbers backwards. When I see a student write his name right to left in perfect
mirror image, I want to run to my computer and send a HELP ME email to the campus
Dyslexia Specialist. This summer I
decided to learn more about dyslexia.
Imagine my surprise when reading, “Reversals are irrelevant to the
diagnosis of dyslexia,” in the book Overcoming Dyslexia by Sally Shaywitz, M.D. Reading this book opened my eyes to
what dyslexia really is, and how early intervention is key to creating
successful, motivated and confident readers.
Eye-opening points from Dr. Shaywitz:
affects one out of every five children worldwide, it spans across
cultures, races and social demographics.
root of dyslexia is a weakness in the phonologic system (using sounds to
form and break apart words) rather than a lack of intelligence or visual
history is a strong indicator of dyslexia.
can be a result of a weak, early language environment at home and/or
early warning clue of dyslexia is a delay in speech development as a
inability to verbally “word play,” such as rhyming, matching beginning or
ending sounds, and blending or segmenting words is also an early clue that
a child may struggle with reading.
memorization and rapid word recall are challenging tasks for dyslexics
because poor readers rely heavily on context clues to decode and
comprehend unfamiliar vocabulary.
are often able to accurately read content words (such as baseball, museum,
airplane) by relying on the context; however, function words (i.e. the,
and, on, in) are commonly misidentified because they lack meaning to the
have many intellectual strengths such as creativity, thinking, reasoning,
Dr. Shaywitz’s book Overcoming
Dyslexia explains dyslexia in
great detail from brain research to diagnosis to intervention strategies. This book is an excellent resource for
teachers as well as parents who wonder why the pieces of the reading puzzle do
not always fit as they should.
Kasie Thibodaux is entering her 10th year of teaching at Fern Bluff Elementary. She graduated from the University of Texas at Austin with a degree in Applied Learning and Development and a specialization in Reading.
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National Breastfeeding Awareness Month
Latch On America Tour
Hand to Hold participated in Milk for Thought's
"Latch on America Tour" event in Austin on August 18th with the Mother's Milk Bank of Austin, Central Texas Healthy Mothers Healthy Babies Coalition, Austin/Travis County WIC Program, Mom's Place, Seton Family of Hospitals, Get Babied! Doula Collective and the Texas Breastfeeding Coalition.The mission is to change the landscape of
breastfeeding — from attitudes to advocacy and education.
Featured Hand to Hold Sponsor: The Baby CUB
Designed by a mom and made in the USA, the Baby CUB (Cover Up Baby) is a garment that shelters baby from distractions and provides mom with privacy while breastfeeding or pumping in public. The business line is now available including houndstooth, suede, and more. Watch the video to see the Baby CUB in action and learn about the latest rights of pumping moms in the workplace.
NICU Support Groups
Join Hand to Hold's Family Support Navigator, Erika Goyer, on Wednesday, Sept. 7th and 21st at St. David's Medical Center 6-7pm and Tuesday, Sept. 6th and 20th at St. David's North Austin Medical Center 6:30-7:30pm for the next installment in The NICU Survival Guide: What Every Parent Needs to Know. For more information, contact Erika Goyer at 512-550-3181.
Health Care Hero Award
Hand to Hold founder, Kelli Kelley, has been named a 2011 Health Care Hero by the Austin Business Journal.
Next Lunch & Learn
Bring a brown bag lunch and join Hand to Hold for the next lunch series event about early childhood development, education, and ECI to PPCD transition on Sept. 7th, 6:30-7:30pm at Easter Seals, 1611 Headway Circle - Bldg. 2, Austin, 78754.
Ice Cream & Isolettes
Hand to Hold’s first installment of Ice Cream & Isolettes was held
on Saturday, July 30th at St. David’s North Austin
Medical Center. Siblings were invited to enjoy ice cream and learn about
the NICU. The program included talking about
why their baby sister/brother is in the NICU, learning about the medical
equipment, understanding how to keep germs away, and creating a special
craft for their baby sister/brother. This program will be offered on a
regular basis. Requests from hospitals are welcome. For more information
contact Laura Romero at 512-924-8655 (or toll-free 855-H2H-NICU ext. 5).
Concert in the Park Steiner Ranch
Thousands came out to celebrate the end of summer at the Steiner Ranch Concert in the Park 2011.
And Hand to Hold was there. All the families and staff of Hand to Hold
want to Hold extend their gratitude to the Steiner Ranch community for
honoring Hand to Hold as this year’s charity. Your support and
generosity mean so much to us. Special thanks to Laura and Richie
Romero, HEB, Cups & Cones, New York Life, and the San Antonio Spurs for your continued support!
A Farewell to Summer
by Kasey Mathews, author, blogger, and mother of son Tucker and daughter Andie who weighed just 1 lb, 11 ounces at birth
The kids are going back to school.
Alarm clocks will have to be set.
Underwear will have to be worn.
Several-day-old tattered t-shirts will no longer make the grade.
We'll move too quickly for dragonflies to perch on our toes. Read more and leave a comment.
2learn2dream is Legacy of Hope’s Specialized Tutoring Program in Austin, Texas.
Sometimes mastering school subjects takes a little extra effort, particularly for children with learning differences. The 2learn2dream program provides individualized tutoring for kids who benefit from a more custom-tailored approach. There is no charge to families for this service! Mel Wray is the director of the 2learn2dream program and brings over 30 years of classroom teaching experience to the desk. Click here to find out more.
Resource Directory Feature: 2Learn2Dream
The Delange Family has two preemies, one of whom just celebrated their first birthday. Their blog allows you to join them on their journey of life's little joys at http://www.delangefamilytx.blogspot.com/
About Hand to Hold
Hand to Hold is a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization providing comprehensive navigation resources and support programs to parents of preemies, babies born with special health care needs and those who have experienced a loss due to these or other complications. Based in Austin, Texas with plans to expand, Hand to Hold’s core service is matching experienced peer mentors with parents who have had a child in the NICU or a loss to offer support.
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