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SUPPORTER UPDATE - MARCH/APRIL 2017

A Mother's Hands
by Kelli Kelley, founder

I will never forget the image of my mom entering my hospital room after my son was born. She did not come bearing balloons or flowers or a soft receiving blanket. Instead of tears of joy following the birth of her first grandchild, her eyes were brimming with tears of sadness and her lips were tight with worry. As she spread her arms wide to embrace me, I warned her not to cry. Something primal in me knew that I would need to draw on her strength in the days and weeks to come. I needed her to be strong so she could bolster me through the storm ahead.

nana holding jacksonAs she stood bravely at my bedside stroking my hair and holding my hand, I showed her the Polaroid picture of her grandson, who weighed one pound and eight ounces, and was clinging to life in the NICU. The lighting was bad, and the image was fuzzy. To me he looked more like an alien than a baby. But not in Nana’s eyes. To her he was beautiful. She insisted on taping the picture to the handrail of my bed because she instinctively knew I needed to bond with this baby who I had yet to meet.

Hours later when a nurse came to take me to the NICU, I did not want to go. I did not think I could handle seeing him hooked up to monitors and machines. But my mom encouraged me to go. She told me how important it was for him to hear my voice.

In the months that followed, she was a constant presence caring for me, her baby, just as lovingly and tirelessly as the nurses in the NICU were caring for mine. She held my hand often, prayed with me and for me, reminded me of my strength and never let me give up hope.

In the sixteen years since my son’s birth, my mom has provided sage wisdom and a steady hand to hold through the wake of obstacles presented by my son’s prematurity.

I was recently chosen as a cast member of Austin's Listen to Your Mother show, a live storytelling event on the topic of motherhood. I'm thrilled for the opportunity to honor my mom publicly for the important role she has played in my journey from frightened NICU mom to founder of a national nonprofit that now supports tens of thousands of families each year.

While the NICU was the most challenging experience of my life, tucked inside its misery were tiny buds that would eventually sprout into tremendous blessings. One of them was the reminder of my mother’s deep, never-ending love. It is that source of strength and comfort that Hand to Hold strives to provide daily to all the families we serve.

Although my mom often complains now about the dark, age spots on the back of her hands, to me they are a reminder of the meals she has lovingly prepared, the miles she has driven to be by my side and the strength and love that has always radiated through them when she holds mine.

Happy Mother’s Day,

Kelli
 

Send a Mother's Day Card, Support NICU Families 

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Mother’s Day is right around the corner! As this special day draws closer, consider honoring a NICU mom or grandmother by making a donation to Hand to Hold. For donations of $25 or more through April 30th, Hand to Hold will send a recipient of your choice a Mother’s Day card with your personalized message. Click here to donate today. Your gift ensures families have a Hand to Hold before, during and after the NICU.
 

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April 22-28: National Infant Immunization Week
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May: Preeclampsia Awareness Month, Mental Health Awareness Month
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May 14: Mother's Day

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After you listen, we encourage you to leave a brief review! Not only do many people rely on recommendations, reviews will help NICU Now's visibility in searches. For instructions on how to rate and review the series, click here.
 

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Mark your calendars for Hand to Hold’s 4th Annual Baby Shower Luncheon on October 20th at the JW Marriott in downtown Austin, TX. Our featured speaker will be Kristin Schell of The Turquoise Table. We are also excited to announce a live performance from Texas musician Randy Rogers of the Randy Rogers Band. Chairing our event are NICU graduate parents and community leaders, Melissa and Brandon Cason. For more information, click here.

Thank You, Early Bird Sponsors!

Thank you to these generous Early Bird Sponsors:

St. David's Healthcare
Austin's First Steps
Lana Macrum-Craig & Ronda Gray
The Pemberton Family
JE Dunn Construction 

If you or your business are interested in sponsoring the 2017 Baby Shower Luncheon, there is still time to be featured on the Save the Date card! Contact Jennifer at  JenniferHayhurst@handtohold.org for sponsorship information. 

Volunteer Opportunities

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   About Hand to Hold
Hand to Hold logoHand to Hold is a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization providing comprehensive navigation resources and support programs to parents of preemies, babies born with special health care needs and those who have experienced a loss due to these or other complications. 

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