Investing in Social Change
by Kelli Kelley
Imagine having to decide if you want your baby to receive medical intervention at birth that, while potentially saving their life, could lead to a lifetime of healthcare challenges, developmental delays and disabilities.
Imagine after the baby survived despite tremendous challenges, that you were unable to hold your baby because their underdeveloped skin would tear like wet paper.
Imagine after weeks in the hospital, finally allowing yourself a few hours at home to rest and receiving a phone call from the doctor asking how long it would take you to get back to the hospital because your baby was not expected to live through the night.
Recently Radiolab aired an update of their podcast 23 Weeks 6 Days, the story of award winning journalists Kelly and Tom French’s excruciating NICU journey and the tremendous obstacles their baby girl Juniper had to overcome to survive. As I listened, I found myself crying as Kelly described her realization that her baby had been ripped from her body and the ache she felt to have Juniper back in her womb so she could protect her. Tom’s fears about his ability to bond with such a tiny and sick baby also resonated with me, as I too faced those same fears. ...continue reading
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Have you experienced a NICU stay, an antepartum hospitalization or the loss of a child? Do you have the heart for reaching out to others who are in that situation now? Hand to Hold is thrilled to have increasing requests for mentoring. Because of the increased need, we are looking for new mentors with excellent listening skills. We'll train you and guide you as needed.
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